Granny Haynes

February 1978 my brother Ken and me with Granny Haynes
Granny Haynes on the front row, far right, at Calvary Baptist Church in Gilchrist Park

My great grandmother, Lena May Haynes, is seen in the photo above on the front row of Calvary Baptist Church in Waycross, Georgia, where she raised her nine living (of ten) children after my great grandfather died at 57 of heart complications. She lived in a small cinder block house where the kitchen was the heart of the home that had just two bedrooms, as I recall. I don’t know where everyone slept, but I do know one of her girls lost a toe when one of the boys chopped it off with an ax or a hatchet while making lye soap in a big pot in the back yard.

My late father wrote a piece on her life, which I’m including below, and I took that text and created a found poem from it.

Granny Haynes

Lena May Kinsey Haynes

family and church her highest priorities

insistent on traditions

Christmas party Silver Dollars

made life fun

made us laugh, dried our tears

gathering in her home

churning ice cream

eating watermelon and fried chicken

listening to the stereo

aprons strings binding her family together

2 Replies to “Granny Haynes”

  1. Kim, I waited until I could read your dad’s piece on my computer as it was hard to do on my phone. I find myself in tears over your great grandma – “a model for generations to come in aprons.” Yes, she word many hats and certainly left her mark in many ways. I did not know any great grandmothers or great grandfathers for that matter and so I find the wonderful thread of family in this piece to be profoundly real. Also, your dad was quite the writer and it is clear where those genes have surfaced.

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    1. Thank you, Anita! I was glad to be able to use Dad’s piece in this blog and create a found poem from it and I appreciate your kind words. He loved writing, and he definitely inspired me to write. I’m so glad you and I are on this writing journey together – you also inspire me to write!

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