March 21: 3:40-4:11 Picking the Suckers Off

I often stop by the Ace Hardware store on my way home from work. In a small town like mine, it’s the place to go for everything – I read the Magnolia Home paint chip stories, buy lightbulbs and birdseed, and even once when I needed a wagon for a book talk where I was selling books, I went in to get one and the Ace man took the box to the back and put it together for me so I could go straight to my event. He’s also the man who taught me something about my tomato plants……..

Tomato Suckers

if I were 30something

I’d be out in the yard

planting a garden in the earth

but I’m not

I’m too old to bend over

and pull weeds

so I bought container gardens

ready to go, ready to grow

containers, potting soil, plants, cages

I bought them ready-made

as inexpensively as

I could plant them myself

.

……but my favorite part is the

Ace Hardware man who

loads my plants and teaches me things

don’t forget to pick the suckers off, ma’am

he says, loading each one carefully from

the cart into the back of my RAV4

you’ll need to look between the stems

in those pockets and find the suckers

that sap the life away from the plant

sucking all the energy from the tomatoes

he pointed at one of them and then

grabbed that sucker and pulled it off

flung it down onto the pavement

I had three of the four plants

went back for the last

I heard him telling the cashier

about those suckers

here’s one you can use to show her, I offered

placing it on the counter

he went to work, teaching the young lady

how to tend a container tomato

I smiled as she peered into the plant

taking careful notes of the learning

from the Ace Hardware man

who says he learnt it all from an old farmer…..

…….and them’s the best teachers of all.

9 Replies to “March 21: 3:40-4:11 Picking the Suckers Off”

  1. I really think you should share this post with your local ACE hardware store because it is the BEST advertisement I have seen in a long time. Not too far from me, there is such an ACE. It is an amazing place with everything you could imagine under one roof and great staff; however, your store seems to be one of the model stores for them all!

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  2. I love how you show the Ace hardware man in your post and poem. It’s people like these who make a difference. I’ll have to take a note about the suckers. I do love planting tomatoes, and I love your final poetry lines….so agree!

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  3. I love how you made a narrative poem about your tomato buying adventure. I’ve never grown tomatoes but I sure like to eat them fresh from the vine. Good luck!

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  4. Kim,

    Who knew? I don’t know that I’ve ever thought about suckers on tomato plants before. I did learn last year not to plant zucchini near tomatoes. And I love thinking about “don’t forget to pick the suckers off, ma’am” as a metaphor for culling other kinds of life-sucking organisms from my life, starting a/ clutter. I’m gonna talk to Ken about this when he gets home. Brilliant! Love the photos, too. I really need to remember to go to ACE! They won’t have tomatoes yet, but who knows what I’ll find. Snowblowers on closeout, if any remain.

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  5. I enjoyed the combo of poem and narrative. I hope you will tell the Ace Hardware man that you wrote about him and the difference he makes! Very sweet.

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  6. Oh yes – old farmers ARE the best teachers, Kim! My grandfather is testimony to that – not formally educated, but infinitely wise when it came to nature and planting. The Ace Hardware man is a sage himself, to recognize it. As for weeding… just today my husband opted to pay a neighbor to take care of our flowerbeds, lol. There comes a point…I love, love this story poem of yours, full of truths and learning.

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  7. “Ace is the place with the helpful hardware man.” Do you remember that jingle? Good for you for continuing to grow things, even when it’s hard. I love the passion of this helpful man at the hardware store.

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