Come Have Tea with Margaret Simon, Joanne Emery, Emily Dickinson and Me!

When my friend and fellow writer Margaret Simon of New Iberia, Louisiana invited me to the Fay B. Kaigler Children’s Festival in Hattiesburg, Mississippi in April to present a poetry writing workshop with her, I eagerly accepted the invitation and began planning the trip. Since it was during my spring break, it made taking the time away much less challenging. Even though I wasn’t able to stay for the entire festival, I enjoyed some time with Margaret – especially our time together in our VRBO as we wrote together and shared the experience as tea drinkers. (You’ll see how Emily Dickinson joined us in a photo at the bottom of this post).

During the month of April, we were both writing daily for #VerseLove2025, so we used the day’s prompt by Joanne Emery, also a writer with Slice of Life, to create poems inspired by looking closely at things around us – particularly things in nature. You can read Joanne’s poem below, used here with her permission.

No Longer

Every year, for twenty years
we came here,
to this house – 
two-story brick
sitting stately on a hill
surrounded by elms and maples,
slate blue doors and shutters.
We came to love this house
because we loved
the two people inside
and loved them more
as they aged –
Silver-haired and stooping
but always moving,
always answering the door
with open arms,
and open hearts
in every season:
Magnolias bloomed
fragrant in summer.
In fall, elms showered yellow 
leaves onto the rooftop.
A dusting of snow frosted
the windows in winter.
The pear trees’ white blossoms
were the first sign of spring.
The seasons rolled one onto another
so imperceptibly we didn’t even notice.
Gradually, the stairs became harder to climb.
the television was harder to hear,
vials of medicine lined the kitchen counter,
important phone numbers were listed on the frig.
Now, when we came,
the house sat a little lower.
We watched a little more closely.
stayed a little longer.
listened a little better,
opened our arms and hearts
just a little wider
to keep the memories 
and the two inside close.
But the seasons rolled on 
and the two are now gone
and the house we loved
Still sits on the hill
but we can no longer return..

-Joanne Emery

Margaret’s poem:

(Margaret took a striking line from Joy Harjo’s poem to write a Golden Shovel poem about her friend’s butterfly garden). 

Mary’s Invitation

In her garden, there’s
salvia, swamp milkweed, that
purple one
I forgot the name of: you
watch a swallowtail circle
tall parsley flowers, back
around to
orange pincushion pistils on a coneflower
for a taste of home.

-Margaret Simon

My poem:

Hello from Heaven

two days ago
passing through 
Greenville, Alabama
I noticed a mural~
Alabama’s Camellia City
fuchsia petals
and yellow anthers
adorning the corners
and thought of 
my mother, who loved them
yesterday
in Hattiesburg, Mississippi
I drove past a camellia
bush of these exact colors
and thought again of 
my mother, who loved them 

this gentle wave from Heaven
to remind me of her
sent me on a quest
to discover more about
the Japan rose
which symbolizes
advancing women’s rights
and is used to make tea
and food seasoning
and to protect the blades
of sharp cutting instruments ~

interesting, but where is the 
message from Heaven? 

my brother will be at 
The Masters, where the
10th Hole is The Camellia Hole
so I will tell him to look for a
sign from our mother there
and perhaps, just perhaps 
he’ll see a
Freedom Bell or
Cornish Show, Inspiration,
Royalty, or a Spring Festival

maybe my own message is 
here, now, ~ in To Kill a
Mockingbird, Jem destroys
Mrs. Dubose’s garden when
she insults his family but is
later given a bud from the 
dying woman who struggled
to overcome her
morphine addiction
and perhaps, just perhaps
this camellia wave is 
every assurance that 
forgiveness of others
is the work my heart
needs to do

and perhaps, just perhaps
I’ll plant a camellia this spring
to welcome more
hellos from Heaven from 
my mother, who loved them 

I glance up at the coffee table
in the VRBO where I’m staying
and notice a decorative box
I hadn’t noticed before now
gold-outlined camellias
as if my mother has been 
sitting with me as I write this poem
and perhaps, just perhaps
she has

  • – Kim Johnson
We listened to The Sound of Music, which Margaret and her mother often listened to together.
The tea I brought as a gift for Margaret (I have a canister I enjoy as well) is Poet Tea, inspired by the herbs and flowers of the New England farms where Dickinson lived and wrote her poetry. The steam of this tea seems to conjure her presence.

When She Comes Calling

I worry about this one

this sweet little fawn who

used to have a twin

when they

still

had

spots

we’d watched them

from the window

for weeks

clumsily playing

beside mama

just yards

from our front door

near the edge

of the woods

before spotting one

crumpled on the road

near the driveway

near their

dense thicket

and now this one

with her rumpled rump fur

comes calling

alone

so close

to the house

as if she’s trying

to

say

something

my little buddy

when the others are getting

breakfast treats in the kitchen

Fitz stays with me

my little buddy

when my husband

leans in to kiss me

goodbye on his early

to work days

Fitz emerges from the

covers with warning

snaps ~ firm reminders

of who is who

when it comes to me

he goes where I go

sits where I sit

sleeps where I sleep

thinks where I think

eats where I eat

and is our only rescue

who has never bitten me

my little buddy

he snuggles me

when I read or watch tv

and catches popcorn mid-air

and gazes into my eyes

like I’m his whole world

my little buddy

my soul dog

my Fitzie

Fitz with his favorite toy, his squeaky turtle

On My First Day of Summer

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It’s already as hot as August

in Mid-June, the kind of heat that

makes you wonder how we all

don’t cook to hardened arms and

faces like a pig on a spit

and why dogs don’t all

wear shoes on their feet

to go anywhere

and just exactly how people

without air conditioning lived

ages ago and whether frying

ice cream should be legal.

Puddled Teeth

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in the sluice

of a Skytrack

crush and run

puddle a gold

shimmer reveals

a tooth

then another

and before I

wonder about

whose teeth

I imagine the

last food

chewed with

these gold

capped jewels ~

a steak?

a pork chop?

a can of

Beanie-Weenies?

a worker ambled

past pointing

at the carnage

explaining how

the fight broke

out between

two men over

his cousin’s girl

(the cheater)

and though I

did not know

who grew

these teeth

I wondered

about the

places

they’d been

before landing

in the puddled

heap all

sparkly like a

sequined dress

never to be

worn again

Saturday Sunshine Voting Slapdown – The Stafford Challenge Day

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An Election Day Reflection

Saturday Afternoon  2/25/2024 12:21

(a poem written during February’s preliminary for May’s Election Day)

I’m sitting in the car 

waiting

again

a typical stop 

while he talks and talks and talks

we only stopped to early vote ~no lines~

sun shines warm in this cold air

Rav4 my greenhouse, Caribbean blue

I clean out the car trash

notice a bush being windslapped

throwing up a limb

talk to the hand !

    as if suddenly offended

I can’t help wondering

if it’s because it is a political hedge

reacting to the lack of lines

and all the fresh gossip 

of no one waiting

Actual talk to the hand tree looking offended

Watermelon Offerings

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Watermelon Offerings

what is this?

well, would you

believe it?

a text ~ding~

a random

communication

newsflash

like a game of Yahtzee

nine years after the full house

will this not substitute

for the apology

owed everyone involved?

this we know:

the human heart

slices cleaner

than seedless watermelon

all cut up in cubes

in a parfait dish

for the entitled

wedding soloist

Day 30 of #VerseLove with Dr. Sarah Donovan of Oklahoma on a Slice of Life

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Today we wrap up #VerseLove 2024 at http://www.ethicalela.com with a prompt from Dr. Sarah Donovan, inviting us to choose a favorite prompt from the month and write another poem on that same prompt. I chose Stacey Joy’s In Our Mama’s Kitchens and Fran Haley’s The First Time. A very special thanks to Sarah Donovan and to Two Writing Teachers for giving us a space to write and grow and encourage each other. I look back as a preacher’s kid growing up in a household where one truly never knew which way the ball was coming, and today’s poem takes me back to the first time I knew I needed to hold on tight.

Pastorium Perils

late summer 1971 
in rural Reynolds, Georgia 
the land of peach trees
in their time of ripeness

Mama was pregnant with
my baby brother and
we were in the den
Mama Daddy and me
when

 ~~whoosh~~

in through the kitchen door
a naked girl with 
long wet hair
streaked through
our house holding a towel
screaming all the way 
down the hall
to my parents’ bedroom

locking the door
on her heels her stepdad
pounding and screaming
threatening her life
I recognized them from church

I was five
the girl was a teenager 
(with flapping boobs 
……and hair….down there?)
her stepdad was drunk

my mother clutched me 
carried me like a football
into my room
locked the door

then ran through 
the connecting bathroom

I followed, fearful 
to stay alone
crawled under their bed

Mama found the girl 
huddled in the bottom
of their closet
shaking
crying uncontrollably
wailing for help
Mama comforted her
clothed her
sat on the bed 
holding her

called the cops

we listened 
in fear for Dad
as we waited

those slurred screams 
of fury
are seared 
into my memory forever

she comes with me
or I’ll go get
my ruiner
and ruin you

then more voices,
the crash of a lamp
furniture slamming

handcuffs, arrest, 
police report
one prominent
family in ruins

exposed

it was the first time
I knew
growing up a preacher’s
kid would bring
a whole cast of 
characters always calling
mostly clothed

it was the first time
I saw a naked teenager
running for her life

Special thanks to Two Writing Teachers

Alien Whatifs On Campsite 231 – The Slice of Life Challenge Day 25, The Stafford Challenge Day 69

Special thanks to Two Writing Teachers

My friend Barb Edler and I both made spooky posts Saturday. Barb’s post was about the possibility of aliens returning after their suspected driveway visit when her oldest son was a baby. Mine was about loss of sleep because of messages in a sound machine (probably possessed by evil spirits, because its twin is working fine).

All of this gnawed on my brain last night when the whatifs* started spinning on the midnight merry-go-round of my mind…..what if a tree falls on the campsite and crushes us right here in the camper? What if somebody up the hill forgot to chock their tires and their camper slides down the hill in the middle of the night and lands on us? What if a rogue tornado pops up and slings us all the way to Alabama? What if aliens invade Pine Mountain?

Aliens.

And then that whatif gobbled and swallowed my whole frontal lobe with a poem.

What Do I Do?

what do I do
if aliens
land here
and
the whole
campground
nudges me
forward
to greet
the spaceship,
elects
me their
spokesperson
like some
Hunger Games
tribute?

what do I do
when the ramp
door lowers
to the ground
smoke spilling
out against
the backlit
silhouettes
of aliens
the
expressionless
kind
with big heads
huge eyes
and knobby
knees?

what do I do
when they
confront me
and stop
toe to toe
face to face
expecting a
word or a
welcome or a
warning?

what do I do
when I start
wondering
if this is
what the
Indian
Removal
Act felt like
for those
pushed off
their own
planet
?

what do I do
when it looks
like they
start
speculating
about
the speed
of all
our little
earth-anchored
sewer-hosed
spaceships
with lights
over the
doors?

what do I do
when I feel
like the fly
before the
spider says
step into
my parlor
?

what do I do?

I do
what I do
best

I invite them
into my teardrop
to read
poetry
and sip
tea


*with a nod to Shel Silverstein for the whatifs in his ear

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Tight Lids – Slice of Life Challenge Day 24, The Stafford Challenge Day 68

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Our first camping weekend of 2024, and we arrived in heavy rain on our favorite campground within an hour from home.  It's pretty full - campers pepper the campground, and kids are out on brightly lit hoverboards, while others are riding bikes and playing frisbee.  Folks are walking their dogs (and vice-versa), and one site had its smokeless fire ring going this morning after the drizzle stopped and there was a damp chill for the reckoning.  

The dogs were nestled back in the crook of the teardrop on the bed, under blankets like little humans, their heads resting on the pillows in a deep schnoodle-snooze.

I was making the coffee for breakfast when the sweetest moment happened - one I shall never forget, connected to another moment that I shall also never forget.

The first one happened in May 2013, when I got my fingers slammed in the trunk of the honeymoon getaway car at my son's wedding as the happy couple were leaving. I assured everyone I was fine, fine, fine, but as we drove back to the hotel, I cried and carried on because I was afraid I would never be able to write again since I couldn't bend my fingers yet and they looked a lot like a package of Ballpark franks after being in a sandwich press. It sent my husband into such a panic that this moment of fear became forever etched into his scrapbook of memories he'd rather forget. But I was fine, am fine, nothing broken or chopped off.

Which makes this morning's moment all the more special.

I handed him
the water
bottle
as I
made
coffee

more and more
recently
I've handed
him
tight lids

I apologized ~
my hands
don't have
the
strength
they used
to have

I explained
again

it’s a scary
feeling, this
change
of
neediness

He smiled
took the
bottle
uscrewed
the lid
handed
it back

his words
brought
reassurance
of the
deepest
kind

.....but
they
can still
write