Rural Reflections

Warning: Photos of dead bobcat in photos at end of post. Do not read further if this makes you uncomfortable. It saddens me, but country living is full of both delights and horrors, and I take the bad with the good.

At 7:52 a.m. yesterday when I pulled into the parking lot at work, I reflected on my morning.  Already, I’d seen a dead bobcat, two rabbits (one alive that ran in front of my car, and one dead that didn’t make it when it ran out in front of someone else’s), a squirrel, a large buck and small spotted deer. I’d heard the calls of the Downy Woodpecker, Eastern Phoebe, Blue Jay, Carolina Chickadee, Ruby and Golden-Crowned Kinglets, Carolina Wren, Eastern Bluebird, American Robin, Pine Siskin, Chipping Sparrow, Eastern Towhee, Northern Cardinal, and Orange-Crowned Warbler.  I’d walked our three schnoodles and discovered a new scratched-up area in the ground cover along the woods of the driveway, showered, dressed, and had my mushroom coffee and protein shake.  

Ollie checks out a new ground scratching

I’d been in the shower when I heard the phone’s text ding.  I saw it was my husband, so as soon as I was reasonably dry, I read the text:  Please call me before you leave for work.  

He told me he thought he’d seen a dead wildcat on the side of the road where the neighbors with the black Suburban live.  “Take a look when you drive by, and let me know what you think it is.  It might be a bobcat.”  

He knew I wouldn’t be able to wait on fixing my hair, clothes, and makeup.  So off I went in my robe to see this creature whose fate had been determined somewhere between 10:30 Thursday night and 6:00 Friday morning.  

I stopped the car in the road and turned on the flashers, got out with the flashlight, and made pictures.  Sure enough, it was a wildcat.  Its gut organs had been eaten, but the rest of it was still in fairly good condition for something that was hit by a car going the speed limit on Beeks Road.  I didn’t think a car had done this, or at least not the blood and gut part.  

I made some pictures to help me in my research and theories about what happened. Imagine: a half-clad, robed wildlife crime investigator out on a rural road before daybreak, wet hair, no makeup, snapping photos of a dead animal carcass. That was me.

I mourned the life of this cat for a moment, despite the fear its kind evokes in me each time I take my dogs for a walk. Moments like these are powerful reminders of why I believe strongly in keeping my dogs on a leash at all times. People think it strange that I live on a family farm in the country on the backside of nowhere and leash my dogs. This is why: bobcats, foxes, coyotes, owls, red-shouldered hawks as large as the Great Horned Owls, rogue dogs, wild boar, cars, venomous snakes, and hunters. Not to mention those who believe that every dog they see off a leash needs rescuing, posting on social media for three days, and then rehoming (a/k/a dognappers who believe they are fully justified). Ours are chipped, but walking unleashed in our neck of the wilderness simply isn’t worth the risk.

I raced back home to pull my Audubon book out and make a 100 percent positive identification on the bobcat. Check.

Then I began the investigation. “Hey, Google. What are a bobcat’s natural enemies?”

Google rarely lets me down. “The most common enemy of bobcats is man, but they also have other predators, including owls, eagles, coyotes, and foxes, mountain lions, and wolves.”

I looked closely at the photos and observed that this bobcat appeared to be in good shape except for the gaping gut hole that had been devoured by something. I also noted an odor that suggested the bobcat had been dead for longer than a couple of hours, even though it wasn’t there the night before. It seemed odd it was in the road smelling of decay already, and not fresh-since-last-night meat. It was also on the edge of the road where it would have likely been hit a number of times by texting drivers who failed to see it in time and move over a little.

A pack of coyotes would have picked this bobcat clean and torn its limbs apart, so I ruled them out. I have never seen a wolf here, and it’s been years since anyone has seen a wild boar on this property. A fox lingered for a passing thought, but one predator emerged as the prime suspect. We have three active culprits, and they’re nocturnal. The Great Horned Owl.

Most people would shake their heads and dismiss this possibility. No way an owl would kill a bobcat.

Here’s a way: a bobcat is struck by a car and crippled but not killed. It languishes for several days in the brush, and finally succumbs to its pain and lack of food or water, probably realizing that whatever animal stumbles across it will consider it a gourmet meal.

I believe it was the Great Horned Owl who watched to see that the bobcat was alive for a time, and then when it knew this creature was too weak to fight back, but probably still alive, it swooped in for the feast. I believe it dragged it to the road for a better angle and strategically placed the stomach organs on the line in the road where the elevation dips back down so it could get to all the good meat in much the same way we invert the yogurt lid to lick the top, and I believe it ate the stomach organs and the eyes.

I believe all of this because I have seen over the years how the Great Horned Owls prefer organs. They eat the heads of rabbits, taking out the brains and leaving the rest. This carcass destruction made sense to me.

I can’t imagine the sheer shame of the bobcat spirit in bobcat heaven, reading the Georgia Rural Wildlife newpaper obituaries about his tragic end:

Robert W. Cat died Friday, November 10, 2023, killed by a Great Horned Owl with a five-foot wingspan. His friends all believed that he was the fiercest of his kind there in rural Georgia but report they had noticed a slip in his swagger in the days preceding his death. His wife reported she had heard rumors he was out running around on her with his sly catlike ways, and moved on just hours following her husband’s death, noting simply, “I hope he was in life number nine. He was a real animal.”

Disturbing Photos below:

Learning to Read and Write with Crayola Crayons

Photo by Miesha Renae Maiden on Pexels.com

I was attending a Science of Reading webinar with a colleague earlier this week. We’d escaped our windowless office and gone to the local coffee shop, where not only is the coffee stronger, but the WiFi is, too.

In Georgia, we have new legislation regarding Dyslexia and the Science of Reading in our teacher preparation programs. As we prepare for these needed changes, our conversations are frequently centered on various aspects of reading.

One slide of the presenter’s PowerPoint focused on the importance of phonics in early reading programs. My colleague remarked that she remembered phonics from her primary school days. We reminisced for a few moments during the presentation to recall how we became readers.

“Do you know how I learned to read?” I asked her.

As I thought about all the fun I had in those days, I wondered whether a Crayola Phonics program would work today – – all those blends are there with BLue, BRown, and GReen, short vowel red and yellow and long vowel green, diphthong violet, digraph white, and all kinds of combinations that sure kept my interest as I became a colorful writer. Of course, I didn’t know they were short or long vowels or the phonics vocabulary of blends and digraphs, but I learned letters and sounds and how they worked together to form words, and it made sense to me as I unlocked these relationships.

And that made me a writing reader.

It also made me particular about my crayons. We had neighbors whose back yard was on the other side of our back yard, separated only by a row of bamboo. My friend Susie Todd lived there, so we would cut through the bamboo and play at each other’s houses. First, I noticed that she called crayons “crowns,” which disturbed me. I also noticed that she started hoarding my pink whenever we colored. She pressed down too hard, and she broke my crayon. Thank God it was the only one she ever used, but we got into a fight over the broken crayon. We soon moved to a new house, and that was about the year that I moved on to the deluxe box with the sharpener – which I shared with no one.

I also remember the exact day I moved from crayons to a pencil. I walked into Mrs. Easterling’s classroom, where she had turned egg cartons upside down, and in each egg cup she’d stuck one of those fat beginner pencils. These were our shared table pencil holders. We had half-sheets of paper to do our math, which did not come as easily to me. Where sounds, letters, and words were my world, numbers were not. I’m still working on my addition and subtraction facts.

Do you remember your phonics program as an early reader and writer? While the nation moves back to the Science of Reading approach with phonics and phonemic awareness taking center stage as early readers learn the dance, the Crayola crayon box still holds a magical place in my journey as a reader.

Our National Day on Writing in Pike County, Georgia

After our National Day on Writing event on October 20 on the Courthouse square, I wrote an article for our local newspaper and submitted it. The editor also wrote an article and merged the two pieces together. It appeared yesterday in the Pike County Journal-Reporter, and already we have growing interest in the newest writing group to form in our community – Writing Wild!

I’m so proud to live in a community where local writing groups and literary events thrive. There is now a new Facebook page to help publicize the events. Please follow and like the page – Writing Wild – and say hello! Better yet, come to the Open Mic Writing Out Loud event on December 5 at 1828 Coffee Company in Zebulon, Georgia!

We can’t wait to see you, online or in person!

Featherless Lovebird Haiku

I saw this post online and was fascinated with the charm of this little bird and the fun of saying “featherless lovebird.” It sounds like poetry in and of itself, the way the vowels lilt and the first syllables of each word are accented, just like her name.

I feel compelled to knit her a little winter coat or something and put a warm cap on her head, the kind with the ear covers and a fluff ball at the top. And maybe add a tube of glittery lipstick and some fluttery eyelashes for her Christmas stocking, just for some sparkle. Maybe paint her toenail talons or throw in a pair of thigh-high black leather boots. Surely this little creature must run around freezing all the time. She seems the type who probably crawls in someone’s shirt pocket and marsupializes herself in all that nakedness.

According to the numbers on the post, she’s quite the social media attraction!

And it looks like there may be Blondie mugs available, too!

Just in time for Christmas.

Ryze

Have you had your morning mushrooms?

I’m giving the mushroom coffee a try. For the next thirty days, I’m seeking to improve my gut health and inflammation with this product. I’m learning of the oat wars and the numbers and types of mushrooms offered in Ryze and the claim feuds between all the mushroom coffee companies over which is better, but I’m hoping that somewhere in all of this I can feel less bloated and experience a relief from lower back and hip pain – common woes of women approaching their 60s.

It’s like that wooden walkway in Jamaica when you finish climbing Dunn’s River Falls where all the vendors in their straw-roofed cabanas are holding the very same items and practically getting in fights with each other if you step closer to one of them than the other or try to take a closer look in one direction. That’s what purchasing this mushroom coffee has felt like- keeping my eyes in one direction, picking one, and leaving the store quickly.

If you have any experience with any of these products, I’d love to know about your journey, because Lord help me if I open the Pandora’s Box of truth on this coffee. Making sense of the hype and sorting out all the benefits is tempered by the voice of experience, and I welcome and value yours!

On Friday Nights

When we aren’t camping on weekends, we like to come home and watch YouTube videos of others sharing their camping adventures.

Here is what we do, starting around 6:00.

  1. Walk the dogs.
  2. Change into pajamas.
  3. Turn on the gas logs.
  4. Heat up pizza.
  5. Pour drinks. 🍷
  6. Settle into the comfy chairs.
  7. Catch up on Randi’s Adventures and Turner Max Adventures.
  8. Refill drinks.
  9. Take YouTube tours of campgrounds and National Parks.
  10. Search for camping hacks.
  11. Walk the dogs.
  12. Refill drinks.
  13. Turn off gas logs.
  14. Transition to bedroom and turn on that TV.
  15. Snuggle in with dogs (assigned spots).
  16. Watch more camping videos.
  17. Put on the Fireplace channel and drift off….without setting an alarm…..

POG Coins

In my school district, our system gives out silver Portrait of a Graduate (POG) Coins whenever a student demonstrates competencies in various aspects of citizenship and humanity.

Two months ago, six of our humanities students in our ninth grade academy took part in a state-wide presentation through Georgia Tech to share their work learning about poverty and the local projects they took on to address poverty in our community.

This will be our third year working with Elia Moreno of Texas as we move from Aha! to Action! to Advocacy! The first year, we Zoomed with her because of Covid constraints and travel hiccups. The second year, we brought her to our county (I had Covid on the day she came to visit), and this year she is returning in person- today – to stand with the students on our auditorium’s stage and continue the good work that she has helped shape in our rural Georgia county.

Students will enter a time of reviewing their work and then begin the next phase by entering a think tank to create ways to meet the needs of our community. Each year, they bring proposals to local elected officials for feedback on their ideas and suggestions on ways to make good things happen. We are building a community garden and providing food through a backpack program for children and families.

We’re blessed to be part of a community that steps up to help meet needs of others.

Goal Update for October

At the end of each month, (or beginning), I review my yearly goals and spend some time reflecting on how I’m doing in living the life I want to live ~ a way of becoming my own accountability partner and having frequent check-ins to evaluate my progress. I’m still in the process of revising some of my goals as I encounter successes…..and setbacks. New goals have asterisks for the month of November, when I will report on them in a few weeks. For the month of October, here’s my goal reflection:

CategoryGoalsMy Progress
Literature



Read for Sarah Donovan’s Book Group


Send out Postcards


Blog Daily




I participated in the October book discussion with Sarah’s reading group for Reader, Come HomeThe Reading Brain in a Digital World. I’ll participate in the book discussion for Assessment 3.0 this month. Time for reading has been scarce lately, but Audible is a good way to try to keep up the pace when all I can do is multi-task.



I sent no postcards this month.

I continue to blog daily, and the daily writing and reflecting is a wonderful habit for me. I don’t feel complete without some form of daily writing, and the blog is a way of continuing the habit.

I had a Zoom meeting with Ruth Ayers of Choice Literacy about writing for her website. I look forward to spending some time writing about local literacy events.
Creativity

*Decorate for fall





*Create Shutterfly Route 66

I created a surprise ducking of our office. I used tiny ducks left over from my brother in law’s birthday ducking and put them to use in the office, even adding Halloween ducks to the lineup.

I have been trying to get to Shutterfly since July, so if I haven’t accomplished this goal by the end of October, I may give up on this one. Update: I’m giving up on this goal.
SpiritualityTune in to church



Pray!



Keep OLW priority
We have been tuning in to church. With Dad preaching every Sunday in October and a few Sundays ahead of that, it makes the church home hunt take a back seat until my childhood church gets a new preacher, since I have the opportunity to hear Dad.

My car is still my prayer chamber for daily prayer, and there’s so much to give thanks for. I continue my conversations with the good Lord each morning and afternoon.

I’m still keeping my OLW my priority: pray!
Reflection
Spend time tracking goals each month


I’m tracking goals, revising, and considering some new categories as I look at my goal table.
Self-Improvement*Reach top of weight rangeThis is a setback for me this month. I’ve hit major stress and gained weight, despite joining WW. I need to set a firm date and get the mental mindset that it takes to stay on track. I have work to do. Update: every day, the diet is starting “tomorrow.” I seriously need a good mindset to start back. I’m keeping this goal. I need to get on track. Tomorrow.
GratitudeDevote blog days to counting blessingsI begin the days this way and end them giving thanks as well.
ExperienceEmbrace Slow Travel







Focus on the Outdoors



I’ve taken a trip in October to F D R State Park for a Little Guy Southern States Meet Up. We met people who have the same kind of camper we have, and we even signed up for next year’s meet up in Tennessee at Roan Mountain State Park. My brother and his fiancee came for a visit during Fall Break, and it was wonderful having some time together with them.

I’m still focusing on the outdoors with birdwatching adventures and camping. We also built our own fire pit foundation for the fire pit my son gave us for Christmas last year.